Vatican Two did not develop any Canons and Decrees to which we had to doctrinally plight our troth or end-up outside her house looking in, so, we are involved in a pastoral romance where we do not know exactly whom it is who is doing the courting and what the expectations are * but Raider Fan is one who thinks he needs an escort.
It is an unassailable observation that God intended each of us to be alive at this time but, surely, one can be forgiven if, in his flummification, a man starts to think he is as cursed as the Transvaginal Mesh salesman who was just diagnosed with Mesothelioma. * Don't touch my Tommy (Aquinas)
